LIFESTYLE WITH BERNYS-- RELATIONSHIPS|WALKING DOWN THE AISLE FOR WRONG REASONS|







RELATIONSHIPS|WALKING DOWN THE AISLE FOR WRONG REASONS|






All the glam on the gram ranging from pre wedding, engagement and wedding shots with excellent themes,décor, on point outfits and makeup is enough to get you into the can’t wait mood. Marriage however is a step that shouldn’t be taken lightly. Getting married just for the sake of it makes the home which should be a safe haven, a rather bitter place to be. If you happen to find any of these 6 factors as your sole reason for getting married, you probably need a second thought.




THE FEELING OF BEING LEFT BEHIND

It’s awkward to feel like the odd one out, you might feel like you do not fit in, but that’s not enough reason to get married. It’s the REST OF YOUR LIFE on the line. Let your friends do what they’re doing and you take as long as you need to make sure you’ve found the one.



MONEY

 He’s going to be a provider or comes from a good family. There’s a lot of truth in the old saying, “If you marry for money, you’ll pay for it.” Though having money certainly doesn’t hurt, it’s not the basis for a solid relationship and won’t hold together a bad union.






THE BIOLOGICAL CLOCK ‘ISH’

Ladiesespecially get desperate to get married at certain ages. They can't just remain single at that age. It’s quite common in our society. It comes withconstant pressure from family and friends. If age is the only reason you’re in a rush to get married, you’re doing it for the wrong reason.





FOR ‘THE GRAM’ SOCIAL MEDIA
Seeing everyone get engaged and post pictures of their awesome days on Facebook and Instagram I get it. When your stories and news feed is picture after picture of smiling brides in their wedding dresses you might start to freak out and feel pressured especially when you’re at that age.
‘HE ASKED

He asked, so you feel you have to say yes. You don’t want to hurt him or let him down. Maybe you’re worried you’ll never have another chance and would rather marry than miss out. If you’re not entirely sure, ask for more time to decide. 



PREGNANCY
After an unexpected pregnancy, marriage seems like the right thing to do to get your baby a home, this however might get you a daddy for your baby and not a good husband.
Marry someone you love, can be your lifelong best friend, makes you a better person and keeps you smiling. Do not rush in and rush out.

|Lifestyle with Bernys|




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